On a daily basis we meet new people, we buy or have new stuffs, we make memories, experience new feelings, time, knowledge. All of these have to last at some point and begin with new, This includes even your own body. Isn’t it? and you were expecting others to be permanent.
You must have memories of your childhood when you started writing with a pen, wore a suit for the time, your friends from the elementary schools, your best friend of that time. You just recalled his/her name or you are still thinking who was it? If it is the latter don’t worry it have to happen because we just can’t change the nature of the world. which says everything which is created needs to be destroyed. Some cool engineers and science fellows must be thinking of energy. So if it is changing its form then the original one doesn’t exists so its temporary too.
Many of us have lost our dear one’s who once promised to be with us forever, its sometimes funny and sad, By lost I mean the ones who are dead and who left us for a reason or may be for no reason but believe me it is something that you just can’t control, So why fear about it.
Actually I believe the biggest mistake that we do is to believe that a thing or person will be with us till our last step of life. That is rarely going to happen my friend and even if it did happen, may be you are being too selfish. I am still in my 20’s and already realised it, they are going to promise you to be with you forever or sometimes it us who expect them to with us forever. The whole key is that just live your present, don’t worry about the future, Its human nature that it wants to play safe and be lazy. I know many of my friends for whom I have done too many things with some level of expectation and 99% I regret them later, not those things that I’ve done but those expectations and feeling of being together and permanent. Or in very simple words
How can a person guarantee to be with you forever when he/her doesn’t know himself/herself how long he/she going to last.
Personal life is not the only important thing that we should not accept to be permanent. Being temporary is equally applicable on other dimensions of life that includes your professional life.